The level of sex drive is relative and depends on factors such as age, the extent of stress exposed to, and relationship status says Emily of Greatist. However, we can’t disprove the fact that normally, we human beings tend not to get satisfied and tired of sex., but where the need for sex intensifies oddly in a man, going for varieties of sex partners appears to be one of the ways of controlling this development, and one of the ways to achieve this without leaving the thoughts of confrontation in the mind of any of the partners is the adoption of wife-sharing method. Mike Hatcher put this succinctly when he was explaining his new experiences with wife-sharing, his opinion goes thus: “if you opt to experiment with other people's wives, you get to learn new things. Also, you are able to share thoughts and body with someone else. In the end, you become much wiser and more open-minded.” 3. Elimination of infidelity issue In the mist of all these polarized arguments, we will be looking into some of these discovered values wives sharing positions itself to offer couples who have decided to adopt it- reasons some men need to share their wives with other men. 1. Individual growth Two heads are better than one, and this is the exact case with wife sharing as each partner has a wider chance of being supported not only financially but also psychologically by the third-party partners. PS. I see people commenting about cheating or not cheating. I don't see how her sleeping in the same room as him would mean she cheated, or run a risk of cheating. If your wife was a cheater then she'd cheat regardless of being in the same room as the man, it's not difficult to cheat if thats what you want. You don't have to get trapped in a room with them to cheat. And people who DONT cheat, well, they tend to have the discipline to not do it, regardless of the situation. Somebody messes up, your wife has an uncomfortable sleep, an unhappy husband, and gets the blame for something that was somebody else did.

Just chill out. Your wife is faithful. Don't start treating her otherwise. She's already feeling awkward as it is. Trust me, awkward is no aphrodisiac when it comes to this other guy, so you have nothing to fear. Saying no wasn’t as difficult as I thought it would be. The guys I politely rejected were totally cool with it, as this saved a lot of time on both sides. We could all move on to other people without feeling led on in any way. Online chatting had loosened me up a lot. I could never imagine I’d be so comfortable with talking to strangers about sex, given how awkward that was for me in real life. And while this is not always the case, one thing that you want to rule out before going any further is that he isn't cheating on you. Marriage is about trust and freedom, so don't go around slapping trust stipulations on her like this. Not if you want to keep your marriage healthy. I also know you can't live with the same restriction on yourself.

Over the next few days, we waited for that high to fade. And it did. It took a while, but eventually, we floated down from cloud nine. Why bring extra unhappiness into your relationship. Get your wife to put in a complaint to her work about the inadequate sleeping arrangements. Two days later my wife scheduled a three hour spa treatment for me at our resort. I had no idea what to expect. When I arrived I was taken to an open area in the mens section and asked to to remove my clothes. As they walked me to the massage area, I noticed that others had robes and I was the only one fully nude, which seemed odd. I also noticed some smiles/laughs that must have been due the very small penis I was not so proudly revealing. We also wanted to see if we could find some other guys. Branch out a little, try new things, and new people. Hopefully, that isn't the case with you, but before we discuss it any further it's important that that's ruled out first.

Oh man I feel your pain, and yes, it's not right that your wife stayed in a hotel room with this other guy. The offending parties were your wife's roommate and this other guy who treated this trip like an adolescent Spring Break and left your wife and this guy out to dry. However, if you’re still hard on the idea even with the knowledge about all the work that’ll take to make it happen – then go for it. I promise you won’t regret it. Do you want to know more? Anyway I don't think you have anything to worry, if anything less than proper had been going on, I don't think she would have brought up the episode at all. As for seeing the guy in his underwear, or wrapped in a towel, why should have been parading around semi naked - the room had a bathroom, right ?, where he could dress and undress, and he would have brought along some pijamas or bathrobe or something ,I guess. The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his “hot wife.” The difference between hotwifing and cheating is consent: In a hotwife arrangement, the husband is fully aware and supportive of his wife’s affairs. In many cases, one spouse or the other even gains sexual arousal from the arrangement due to voyeurism, the thrill of doing something taboo, or an infidelity and/or jealousy fetish.Any future trips that I can't go on and get our own room then my wife isn't going to be allowed to go on" What now... is this worth making her feel upset about it? Is this worth the happiness of your marriage.

you should i think NOT MAKE A BIG DEAL or issue out of it.however speak to her.have a talk and tell her that you understand and trust her.but the NEXT TIME ,she should book a room instead.and that its not socially correct to sleep in an enclosed room with a male colleague! You DON'T uphold marital vows by putting your integrity, character, and commitment and love for another on the line to poor judgement and making a poor decision to invite in, carelessly, rumours or even ACTUAL cheating of a sexual nature.Your wife should have notified the hotel itself and they should have gotten her a new room. If there wasn't a new room, they should have enforced who belonged to what room, because I guarantee that had there been damage, they would have gone after her. I trust my wife, and believe her that it was innocent, but in my mind, it is still wrong for a married woman to spend the night in another man's hotel room, innocent or not. Also, what if other work people saw her leave his room in the morning, this can start all kinds of rumors and ruin my wife's reputation. Am I wrong to think that this is kind of a big deal? I mean even in seperate beds, she saw him in his underwear, saw him shaving in the morning, and saw him in a towel after his shower before they went to the 2nd day of the seminars. I was apprehensive about this at first, but he nudged me into speaking to the men who would message us. I didn’t know what to expect, I was still worried I would come off ass too clumsy or shy or just plain weird. It has so far been observed that partners who practice wife sharing are less vulnerable to any Sexually Transmitted Infections because on most occasions these partners would have arranged for a meeting with the third parties, get to know one another, and discuss how to have a safe sex adventure. Reasons Some Men Need To Share Their Wives With Other Men To verify: Send a MODMAIL with your username, desired user flair, and an imgur link to at least 3 color pictures of yourself holding a handwritten paper sign that includes:

In the opinion of Pairedlife, the traditional marriage face the following challenges- these issues are compared and juxtaposed with wife sharing: As long as we are humans and we remain on earth and stay in association with one another, we cannot avoid challenges, and no doctrine or principle of relationship is competent enough to be branded self-sufficient. According to Pairedlife, “we should embrace the various different sorts of human relationships and treat them all equally, such as one-parent families, homosexual relationships…” Hence, going for the relationship that appears to provide one with happiness should be the aim of everyone. Your happiness should come first. Restriction of freedom of the couples is more prominent in the traditional marriage than we have it in the wife-sharing relationship. Things are going great in your relationship, you love each other very much, but then out of the blue, he suddenly tells you that it would turn him on if he saw you sleep with another man. Next, you said your wife isn't "allowed" to go to future trips unless you can go? Pardon? You aren't in a position to boss your wife around. I'm sure she will agree to not go alone again as the episode was unpleasant for her as well, and she originally DID want you along, you were the one who didn't like the idea after all. However, careful with giving the impression that you own her is some way, or can make decisions on her behalf. She's a person, not an object. You marry her and get to life with her and all her senseless decisions, you don't marry her and then get to rule over her to prevent such senseless decisions. If you married a goof then respect her being who she is, you can't keep the goof under "control", the harder you try the further away you will push her.

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She needs to stand up for yourself. As for whether or not she dishonored the marriage, I don't believe she did. She was honest and forthright with you, and I believe her heart remained loyal to you. Likewise, this other guy also honored your marriage by the separate beds and the professional emotional distance. In the end, we have a few regular guys we see now. All of them are older than us because we’ve found that we react well to the confidence and experience older men bring to the table. Gets us hot all over. What Does The Future Bring?